True commitment is a partnership and business
Many individuals are not ready to make the sacrifices necessary to commit to another person. They do not see benefits in losing their solitariness and do not want to put energy into ironing out the kinks during courtship.
They do not realize the fulfilment in sharing a peaceful union.
True commitment is a partnership and business. Two people combined should have each other's backs spiritually, financially, emotionally and when possible, professionally. From a spiritual aspect, they should keep each other covered in prayer and be equally yoked. On all levels if they have each other's back, it's like two soldiers in the jungle who sit back to back. Each can only see a 180-degree radius at a time but when back to back 360 degrees are now covered. They have created a circle of protection. With two mature partners bringing their gifts to the table, more will be attained, including generational wealth.
Today people give up on relationships over pettiness, the desire for something new or just the fact that for the past week they feel like they're missing something that the other person isn't fulfilling. Then months or years later, they realize it was a mistake to let that person go. We all go through individual growing processes that alter the makeup of a relationship and we need to learn to get back on the same page instead of giving up on each other.
The key is that we each do our part.
A relationship may bring on new responsibilities and challenges, but so does a promotion, career change, move to a new city or whatever you do in life once you are going to the next level. We just have to be mature enough and open enough to handle these changes. Relationships are hard but if it is the person God has for you, then it will all be worth it.
I totally agree with you Tiffany. My husband and I have only been married for two years, but we have each others back, during the good times and the bad. We can't give up on each other, because when we made our vows, we made them in earth as well as in Heaven, before God. The angels were rejoicing just like they do when someone gives their life to Christ! It takes three to have a successful marriage these days, God, the husband and the wife! As long as you have those three things, it's all good!
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